So done with dating



I just do not want to do it anymore.

I hate the whole concept of dating - the idea that I am supposed to meet a complete stranger for a romantic outing when we don't even know each other?

Isn't that a little backwards?

Isn't that too much pressure?

I am just not into it.

Personally, I think we should be going on dates with people we are ALREADY in a relationship with. So, if I ever have a boyfriend again... I'll go on a date with him.

Until then, I am DONE.

From now on, I will only accept Not Dates from strangers.

If it is a Not Date we can just HANG OUT and do a fun activity without expectations. We can just enjoy a moment with another human being on planet earth.

Read my blog and/or my book? Wanna meet me? Okay, I'll meet you for a Not Date.

Wanna take a walk and get some exercise? Talk about interesting topics? Sure, I'm down. I like meeting new people.

If it turns out that we actually both like each other, sure, THEN I'll go on a date with you.

But I'll probably want to go on a few more Not Dates first.

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Comments

  1. Not sure I ever considered that a first date needed to be romantic, more along the lines of a "not first date" and if it went well? then a romantic date.

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    1. The word "date" alone implies romance or the possibility of romance. So, the point is, I don't want to do something that implies romance with a stranger. Too much pressure.

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  2. This is Michael. I agree with you. Dating strangers is more awkward nowadays. Why not just hang out and then see where things might lead to?

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  3. I’ve actually tried that. It does / did take away a lot of the pressure. So, how many women who are on dating sites would be offended if a guy suggested a none-date? I could easily understand if the suggestion came across as “oh great he doesn’t think I’m that attractive”. I could be mistaken, but I believe women (not all) still like, want a guy to express romantic interest in them up front. I mean the process of going on a first date is stressful enough that a lot of women opt out. It is my belief that the idea of a man expressesing romantic interest is the motivation needed to actually put in the effort of going out on the date.

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    1. Dennis Arndt, you pose a very valid question. I had not considered that angle. I think the way the gentleman proposes will determine the outcome. If he explains that he would love to meet up for a Not Date as a way to avoid pressure but demonstrates his thoughtfulness by suggesting a date/time/location, he should be okay. I am not sure what you mean by "express romantic interest up front" but clarifying expectations is always good and fair for each party to do.

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  4. For me I'd love to get to know the person better, have some conversations so i can read the mentality, the mind orientations, and at least 30% of their intelligence and than i may decide, link should start first with mind and thoughts not only the look, some pple look good but they ain't got that mind charm, and their company will be boring as hell 😂😂😂, but for the date it's something special, cause ull share ur soul, the private area of ur mind and body, so that person should worth it 😉😉😉

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