So done with dating

I just do not want to do it anymore.

I hate the whole concept of dating - the idea that I am supposed to meet a complete stranger for a romantic outing when we don't even know each other?

Isn't that a little backwards?

Isn't that too much pressure?

I am just not into it.

Personally, I think we should be going on dates with people we are ALREADY in a relationship with. So, if I ever have a boyfriend again... I'll go on a date with him.

Until then, I am DONE.

From now on, I will only accept Not Dates from strangers.

If it is a Not Date we can just HANG OUT and do a fun activity without expectations. We can just enjoy a moment with another human being on planet earth.

Read my blog and/or my book? Wanna meet me? Okay, I'll meet you for a Not Date.

Wanna take a walk and get some exercise? Talk about interesting topics? Sure, I'm down. I like meeting new people.

If it turns out that we actually both like each other, sure, THEN I'll go on a date with you.

But I'll probably want to go on a few more Not Dates first.

What do you think? Are you tired of dating strangers? Tell me in the comments!

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  1. Not sure I ever considered that a first date needed to be romantic, more along the lines of a "not first date" and if it went well? then a romantic date.

    1. The word "date" alone implies romance or the possibility of romance. So, the point is, I don't want to do something that implies romance with a stranger. Too much pressure.

  2. This is Michael. I agree with you. Dating strangers is more awkward nowadays. Why not just hang out and then see where things might lead to?


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