Tinder disabled my account so...









Originally I wrote this post in 2017 when I kept having problems with my Tinder account and people kept telling me I was disappearing and reappearing and, luckily, I had a platform to tell them, "Hey! I am not ignoring you on purpose!"

But today, it seems I get a lot of traffic on this post from people who I am guessing have the same issue I was having. I feel your pain! It is so frustrating!  Recently, I actually got banned from Tinder and I don't even know why. They ghosted me.

I wish I had answers for you on how to help you with your Tinder account. I don't. But, now you found me! And I write about navigating the dating app world with kindness to enhance (rather than destroy!!) gender relations. You got here, keep reading my blog!

And, good luck out there! The dating app world is rough, I know!

xoxox



Original Post:

If you found my blog from Tinder and now think I am ignoring you...  grrrr. I am not.

Update 5/28/17 - It's working again! Yay!!!

Update 6/5/17 - I have no idea what is going on with my Tinder. No, I have not deleted you (unless you were abusive to me). No, I did not just re-match with you on purpose, though I did get fifty messages yesterday telling me that happened. No, I am probably not seeing your messages. If you contact me on another platform, I will not be annoyed and will at least be able to respond.

Update 6/12/17 - Well, surprise surprise. Now my account is under review again and I can't get on. Reported by too many users. Hmmmmm.... wonder why?  Thanks Tinder for all your glitches and thanks guys for not realizing that maybe it is the technology and not the real, live person.

Yes, I am annoyed!


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Comments

  1. Well, I'm glad I found you last night then !! Everything happens for a reason. Maybe, just maybe...the stars aligned for a brief period of time that- who am I kidding, I just lucked out ;)

    Have a safe and and enjoyable weekend !

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    1. Thank you! Now I don't have your picture so I don't know who you are but I hope you will follow my fb page and hopefully I can get Tinder back and respond to whatever your last message was!! Sorry!

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  2. Hey JL, my name is Aaron and I sent you a msg on tinder. Do you have an email I can resend my msg to if it's getting blocked? I think you'll like it ��

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    1. Hi Aaron! I am glad you saw this post. Feel free to contact me on Instagram @jenlourie or on Twitter @jenlouriemainer or on my Facebook page www.facebook.com/aloneinthebackseat I look forward to seeing your message. Thank you!

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  3. Ooh no! Why would they do such a thing, did they cite a reason? Seems kind of rude on Tinder's part and certainly doesn't help with your writing/project. I think all of our poor male egos have thick enough skins to handle it, no worries.

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    1. They said too many people reported me. I think people thought I was a fake account? I don't know. I am so glad I at least have this platform so I could tell people I was not ignoring them on purpose!! Let me tell you, there were tears this afternoon I was so upset about it.

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    2. Some people are just too hot for Tinder, I guess.

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  4. I am new to online dating, and swiped right on your profile today because you were attractive to me. But then a read your blog today, and you seem so much more interesting. Even if we don't match on Tinder, I have enjoyed reading your work today.

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    1. Oh, thank you so much! I am so glad to hear that. Well, at this point, since I am blocked, I doubt we will match but I am glad you were kind enough to reach out. :)

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  5. I recently came across your blog and hve been reading along. I thought I would leave my first comment. I don’t know what to say except that I have enjoyed reading. Nice blog, I will keep visiting this blog very often.tinder login

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